I’m 16 and my dad sucks at keeping his job, so we move a lot. Also, my dad thinks i’m gay because i don’t have a girlfriend… Im not gay, Im as far away from it as possible before being homophobic. I have confidence in a lot of things, but just not girls. I made a bit over 000 on the internet in 6 months (yup, all by myself and not my loser dad), I work out a lot, i have <7% body fat and a six pack, and can bench 200lbs. I’ve made my own hip hop beat before using FL studios 9, and made a micro magnetic generator. Im not socially awkward either, Ive made some killer speeches, debates, and comedy troupe.
So accordingly, not to be cocky or anything, i suppose i’m more attractive than the average joe. So why am I scared of approaching girls? I think its because either a. I’m asian, and well, with the asian stereotypes and I just moved to a new place…. b. I’m always the new kid at school every two freaking years, which makes me a loser, even after being popular at my previous place. Do girls even care about these things, or i’m i just being too jumpy.
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
It’s natural to be scared of things we aren’t used to. If you are moving every two years you aren’t getting a chance to get to know girls and get used to them. Honestly though I don’t think it’s just that ,you have confidence issues. By listing your virtues in your question you attempt to impress the reader which you wouldn’t need to do if you had more confidence. Debating and talking to the person you like are not the same thing. Debate speeches and even rebuttals can be prepared beforehand however a conversation is quite difficult to plan. Therefore there is the element of the unknown and as I said the unknown is scary. calm down everyone goes through this,it’s nothing to worry about.But the best way to get over this fear is to face it,try approaching some girls.worse thing that could happen is that your ego gets a little bruised.I severely doubt they care about you’re being asian either. so bear in mind all your 40000 dollars,bench pressing,magnet making,speech saying and hip hopping (
) and go approach a girl-I dare you! 
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
I like you already!! =P
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
Hm. I don’t understand. I’m asian and you’re not bad at all ;] haha but I guess people don’t know you that well. Try to build character. Show people who you are. Make relationships with more people(like friends not dating) and some time or later you’ll find a girl!
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
Well…
1. I think you are an ok guy, and congrats on making the money but you need to find out why you are a good person minus the money and the 6 pack. What is good about you in terms of if you are nice or funny or interesting…. I’m sure you do but i think if you spent more time figuring out those things then girls might like you more. Even though guys think money is all girls want it isnt true, we want a guy with more substance
2. Of course being the new guy will make things hard! i feel for ya on that one! But just be yourself and ask a girl out. Have you ever? Maybe she will say yes, maybe she will say no. If she says no well who cares! At least you tried! And you will probably move soon again anyway and never see her lol
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
I wouldn’t really worry about it just be confident and always smile. And if some girl cares that your asian then you probably don’t need to talk to her anyway. Also congratulations on all of your achievements:)
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
Girls are complicated. You’ll get one sooner or later takes time
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
I don’t quite understand what type of answer you’re looking for or what you’re asking. Just start talking to girls? I’m sure any girl would like the description you gave of yourself, so you shouldn’t have a problem with looks. You just have to work up the nerve to hang out with girls and actually get a girlfriend. I’d like to see what you look like though haha
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
well to me i just think that its because your moving a lot. you seem really attractive and confident in yourself with what you do. no girls don’t care about these things we like guys like you with confidence. you just maybe need to get to know some girls better? hope this helped?
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
nah dude your not cocky. that’s confidence and that’s all you need.
and as for the 40,000 you made all by yourself, mad props man.
moving many times does have an effect social life, i mean your constantly being around people you don’t know!. when i moved to another state it was hard for me to make friends. but i did in time.
and don’t worry about your dad. my dad was the exact same way, my Spanish dad was an ass.
try and find a girl that your comfortable talking to, and if you like her just hang out with her, (ex. ask her to go to the movies or talk a walk…etc.) and also when you two are hanging out try not to think about whether or not your doing a good job of talking to the girl. take a deep breath and relax.
14. August 2010 at 6:19 am
get some self confidence man, you have a lotta things goin for ya! have some pride! if i were you id be so happy that i had a six pack, 40000 bucks and enough talent to make a hip hop beat and be funny. that should help you pick up chicks so easy man. look. go out some afternoon and just go up to and talk to as many girls as you can. you might feel a bit sick to your stomach the next day but itll be definitely worth it.
ps, how did u get all that money off the internet?!?!?! email me!!! lol